The 10 Pros and Cons of Dating a Guy as Hot as Hell.
Obviously physical attraction accounts for a lot when it comes to finding love, but there’s a difference between a guy who’s moderately handsome and one who’s so hot as hell that you don’t know what to do with yourself. If you are dating a guy who is as hot as hell, you should probably be prepared for the downsides too. Here are some pros and cons of dating a hot guy below you should be aware of.
The Pros of Dating a Hot Guy
Of course, this is the obvious place to start. The beauty of eye candy, is well it’s eye candy. When your man is dead sexy you get the pleasure of having one hunk of sexy man eat at your side all the time. Those moments of sexy we fantasize about, you live it, 24/7.
It can boost your self-esteem
He is ever so hot, and even better he has a great personality. He is the total package, and he picked you. This man could be with anyone, yet you are the one he finds special. You are the one he wants to be with. Having a hot guy choose you over all the prospects he has can make you feel amazing.
You can have good looking kids?
His great looks, plus your great looks, equals some incredibly adorable children! While being stone cold sexy isn’t a gene, many of those features you find sexy are genetic. Of course, we all love our children and they are adorable in our eyes. But, making babies with someone so good looking doesn’t hurt the odds of having one great looking family!
Perks and VIP Treatment
Sure, he gets loads of attention because of his looks. But sometimes that attention comes with perks. He catches the eye of plenty of people, including bartenders, bouncers at trendy night clubs, and hostesses at nice restaurants. All that sexy can make it easier to get a drink, to get into a hot club, and to get a good table at a great restaurant.
You feel proud to have landed such a hot guy
Sure, women look, lots of people look. But that hot guy is all yours. There is a sense of pride walking down the street holding his hand, knowing people are looking but they can’t have him. He is all yours. You get to walk around and say that’s right world looks all you want; he is all mine!
The Cons of Dating a Hot Guy
People assume you are superficial
Sure; you know you are with him for more than his looks. But other people may take one look at your hottie and assume that is all you look for. You may not care what other people think, but if your relationship falls apart you may find your friends trying to set you up with “hot” guys who don’t have much of anything else to offer.
It can create insecurities
Even if he is the most faithful person in the world, even if he is oblivious to all the women flirting and fawning over him, it can have a toll. You might not be insecure or jealous at the start, but over time all the attention he gets can wear on you. The fear that he might stray, or that you might not be “hot enough” can start to creep in. It isn’t true, but over time it can start to nag at you that it might be.
The attention he gets from other women
At first it can be fun to show off your sexy man. Eventually it can get more than a little irritating how much other women can and do fawn over him. And, no you are not just imagining it. Pretty people get hit on in public. They get flirted with; people strike up conversations with them. No matter how secure you are, it can get annoying having women hit on your man unsolicited.
Some hot guys know they are hot, most do. Some come with an ego greater than their amazing good looks. Of course, this isn’t always the case, but the bad reputation good looking people get for having egos that are bigger than their looks come from the bad apples that poison the lot. Of course, it won’t take long for you to figure out if his ego is more than you can deal with.
Some hot guys are just naturally hot. Some hot guys are naturally hot and work extra hard to stay that hot. Be prepared for the possibility of manscaping, tanning, hours at the gym, and shopping trips that rival your own. It can be funny when he takes longer to get ready to go out than you do. It can also get pretty annoying sometimes.