Detecting Undeniable Signs He’s Cheating on you on Purpose.
Signs He’s Cheating on you: Even though we most times want to live in denial of this obvious fact- that lovers cheat on themselves, we have abounding instances of infidelity all over the globe.
Though it seems the male sex is more prone to this particular act than the opposite sex. Man cheat all the time, it is nothing new to us. Some women have had to deal with a cheating partner more than once in their lifetime.
The good news is, you don’t always have to suffer heartbreak for someone else’s irresponsibility. You can equip yourself with the tools and knowledge needed to be able to detect early enough the potential and the appearance of this.
Study the signs we are going to give below if you are skeptical of your man’s loyalty to you and be able to tell if he’s considering that other woman outside.
Explicit Signs He’s Cheating on You
He is Being Secretive about his Finances: If you suddenly notice a shift in his spending pattern or unexplained withdrawals and secretiveness, you should start asking questions about his fidelity towards you. There is something he is not letting you know.
Your Time Together is Always Spontaneous: He ensures that he doesn’t maintain a schedule with you. All his actions and activities are not fixed. This is simply so he doesn’t have any appointment to keep with you, as such can go on his escapades.
They Engage IN Zero Eye Contact: for the fact that he is feeling guilty, staring you direct in the eye will definitely be a very difficult thing for him. He will try as much as possible to avoid all situations that will warrant eye contact.
Smells of Perfume that is not Yours: He may come home and smell of perfume but the scent is unfamiliar to you. Could it be that it is the scent of someone else? Don’t get too carried away over analyzing this but if his behavior seems strange, you can always ask what cologne he put on that day. If something seems off, go with your gut. It is obvious that stench isn’t yours.Lipstick on his Clothes Lipstick on his Clothes or Collar and the Color is not Yours: You see a tiniest smudge of bright red lipstick on his collar, and you’re a mauve girl. That is a big clue, and if there is no way to explain it away. If you ask him about it and he gets defensive, that is an even bigger clue. Sure, it could be his mom’s or his aunt’s but it certainly is not yours.
They Don’t Have Much to Say: He is avoiding deep, long conversations with you. One liners and short phrases make up most of his words, there’s something up. He seems to be “dreamy” or simply shut-down. If he’s suddenly stopped talking as much as usual, that’s a red flag of something being wrong. You live together but don’t interact. He has become cold and inconsiderate of your feelings.
He Accuses You of Cheating: While it may seem surprising, a common characteristic of a cheating man is that he accuses you of cheating on him. In fact, it’s been shown that people tend to accuse their accusers of what they’re doing as a way to deflect blame and guilt. And if your man insists that you’re the one who’s being unfaithful or if his response to cheating inquiries is that you’re the person who’s doing him wrong, this could a sign that he’s been cheating on you. After all, if someone accuses you of something that you’re not guilty of, you would do everything in your power to rebuff, disprove, and discredit the accusation with clear-cut facts. On the other hand, if you were actually guilty, one way to try to absolve yourself from blame and avoid having to take the fall is to flip the argument back at the other person, no matter how ridiculous it may sound.
Less or More Sex: If your boyfriend’s attracted to another woman and having sex with them, he’ll probably change the way he has sex with you. Some men will end up not wanting sex with you if they’re cheating. They might even feel as if having sex with you is ‘cheating’ on the other person. Other men will want sex much more when they’re cheating. Having sex more means it’s on their mind, whoever they’re with.
They Suddenly Have a Password ON Their Phone: It’s not just the appearance of a new password, a general development of secrecy with his devices and gadgets should tell you that something is up. After all, you had initially had unrestrained access to those.You Don’t Recognize a New Bedroom Move: Until now, you guys explored together, tried new things together, but of recent, he has tend to magically develop the intuition to come up with new ideas, new tricks and new positions on the bed, dear… you need to be wary. He is studying only theory, someone is giving him some very good practical tutorial, you know what I mean.
Pays closer Attention to his Own Appearance: Watch to make sure how much effort he takes into putting himself together for the day. If he pays closer attention to his own appearance, puts on a little extra cologne, is dressing better, or spends a little more time at the gym, he might be having an epiphany or he might be out impressing someone else. Maybe he’s dropping weight, and lots of it. Also note that showering before bed signifies guilt and a possible desire to wash away all evidence or detection of a lover’s scent.
He Calls you by the Wrong Name: Another major indicator that your man is cheating on you is that he inadvertently calls you by the wrong name. Also known as a Freudian slip, this is an instance in which a person ends up saying out loud what he or she’s unconsciously thinking. And for a man who’s cheating on his partner, it’s not uncommon that the name of the person who’s the new apple of his eye ends up popping out of his mouth, sometimes at inopportune times. To that end, research has shown that situational stressors can cause Freudian slips, so when your guy’s conscious mind is preoccupied, distracted, and nervous when he’s around you, his unconscious mind is able to let loose.
Changes In His Sexual Behavior: Look for sudden changes in his sexual behavior or libido. Your sex life may start to become a little less exciting or if he does engage in intimacy, he may be trying to do things you have never tried before. Look for signs of him wanting to become intimate a lot more or a lot less.
Gets Details Mixed Up: Check to see if he gets details mixed up. Sometimes he may get dates confused. Does he get mixed up about things you have done together, such as seeing a movie or going to a restaurant? Sounds great, but it was not you who he was with. You never saw the movie or ate at that particular restaurant. If not you, then who?
Going Out with ‘The Guys’ More Often: Your man might be saying he is going out with ‘the guys’ and it is happening a little more often. He also might just ‘accidentally’ leaving his cell phone in the car. He doesn’t want to be bothered during this time out, so it is much easier to be unavailable to you. There is nothing your man should feel like he has to hide from you. Doing this once can be accidental, but several times is a big red flag.
Spends a Lot More Time at the Office Or More Overnight Trips: There might be a time when he suddenly spends a lot more time at the office or is on more overnight stays or weekend business trips. Work is a great excuse, if you question it, he can easily say he is working on your future, and make you feel guilty for even questioning him about it.
Cheated Before you were with him: He has cheated before you were with him. He may have even been cheating with you while with someone else. They say once a cheater, always a cheater, but that is not always true. However, if he got away with it once, do not be surprised if he does it again. Sure, guys can change but there may be too many other signs to ignore.
Distanced Himself from You: He may just seem to have distanced himself from you. It can be hard but he may be disengaged and not as attentive as he once was with you. He may not ask about your day or wish you a good day or even kiss you like he used to. The feeling cannot be ignored.
Now that you know what to look out for, be vigilant and alert. Those are clear signs that he’s cheating on you. Don’t let him keep playing on your intelligence and your emotions any longer. You deserve better!