12 Things That Every Man Like To Hear From a Woman.
So what is it that men want to hear, actually? I’m going to address this attempt to cover general basics that often relate to almost all men around the board, so that you can gain a deeper understanding of the male mind and really understand what men want to hear.
Just like a man should say the right words” that a woman needs to hear, to make him feel unique and special, a woman should also use the appropriate words every man likes to hear from a woman.
There are some congratulations, remarks, strings of conversations in this context, and even verbalized observations that a woman may also say to her man.
Here are a few choices that women can make while on a date or in a serious relationship with their husband. You should actually mention these to your beau every day,
Things That Every Man Like To Hear From a Woman
“You Are So Handsome”
Every woman wants to hear that she is beautiful, gorgeous, pretty and sexy. Men too like to be valued and noticed. Verbalizing that your man looks handsome will give him a great feeling.
Nothing makes it more meaningful to hear that than from the lady he loves. The appreciation and respect should be very much there.
The sparks must be alive even after the “get to know” stage as well. It is quite obvious that physical attraction exists between a man and a woman who have been dating for a while or in a relationship.
So, even if it’s been quite some time, it is common for women wanting to hear that they are pleasing to the eye.
Trust me, your man too wants to hear that too. Tell him that you still feel the same attraction towards him like how you felt the first time you saw him.
The feeling that arises in him resonates with what you feel when he tells you that his heart still starts beating faster when he sees you in your tight little black dress, just like the first time! Self-boosting positive criticism and compliments give strength to your relationship.
“I Want To Grow Old with You”
For a solid relationship to blossom and grow, security is the key. When you says you’re in love with him, anything that you suggest for a future together in reality is like music to his ears.
You pledging your trust and sincerity through things makes you both stay strong even during the adversities of life.
When a man pledges security, the bond between you and your companion strengthens. Women generally do not like to speak about getting old, but for the man who she really wants this means you want to spend the rest of your life with him.
“I Am So Proud of You”
Perhaps, one such a thing that men really see differently than women do is self-worth. Much of our confidence is dependent on how well we succeed in our job or business.
Being able to measure your goals and accomplishments boosts your esteem big time. A woman in his life that supports and encourages him to strive further in what he does truly mean more than anything to a man.
“I Believe in You”
These are words that can mean the world to a man. Take pride in his hard work and knowledge, reassure him that the outcome will be great!
“There Is a Difference”
Men work hard on things they believe. The desire to get those chiseled abs muscles, makes him strive harder. Even men have goals that they want to see coming true.
They too want to see their efforts paying off. For the lady that he loves, he wants to feel strong to be able to protect you.
When you put in the effort and try to accomplish your goals, a positive note is more rewarding than ever. Likewise, for your man, your saying that “I can see the difference” is encouraging enough for him to continue along the path.
Staying motivated and agile all the time is difficult. Your positive feedback can actually help him work on his aim with much more vigor and commitment.
“I Trust You”
Keeping ourselves guarded and not being able to trust anyone completely is really frustrating. Trust is important in a relationship and if you do not your man will feel insecure.
Having to bear a retaliation all the time is annoying. He will not open up to you to speak out his mind. This can be distressful for him and to your bond.
WHEN A MAN KNOWS YOU TRUST HIM, IT BUILDS A NEW LEVEL OF SECURITY BETWEEN THE BOTH OF YOU.
Show your partner that he can be trusted. It isn’t a one off thing and must be there both ways. Put your companion at ease by letting him know that you believe in his actions.
Just like kindness should never be an act of expectation, similarly appreciating the things that they do for you means that you recognize their efforts.
Your man works hard for you, sometimes sacrificing those things that could have brought him greater happiness.
It is important for you as the woman express your genuine thoughts and become the best version of yourself that you can. LOVE HIM BACK FOR EVERYTHING HE DOES TO TAKE CARE OF YOU AND KEEP YOU HAPPY.
“I Respect You”
Love is bonded by faith, trust, care and respect. When you respect your partner, it definitely adds up to the cornerstones of love. True love does require respect, which makes your man feel significant.
“You Make Me Happy”
When you tell your man that it is he who makes you the happiest, it will make him feel wanted, respected and loved. Make sure he realizes that you know that all that he does for you is to make you happy.
“Men Want Authenticity”
Men want to hear something real and authentic not a recycled narrative a woman thinks a man wants to hear.
For example, some women pretend to have certain interests that they don’t actually have to impress a man thinking it’ll win him over but in reality he just views you as any other woman (since most women do this).
On the other hand, if you are authentic and your true self around him, it’ll make him feel intrigued and refreshed by you. You will literally be like a glass of cold water on a scorching hot day.
“Men Don’t Want to Hear “Conditions”
This is something men are definitely not fond of. By conditions I mean… “if you do this thing that you really want to do, I will be angry at you.”
Sometimes the message is implied and the woman doesn’t say it outright; the sentiment is the same, though.
The point is that being angry and placing conditions on what a man can and cannot do if he wants to avoid making you angry is definitely not something men like to deal with.
Men like to be around a woman who does not impose arbitrary restrictions on their life. No man wants to feel like he has no freedom.
The irony is most men end up more likely to commit and want to be exclusive when a woman is truly able to give him his freedom.
Then, all of a sudden, he will be the one who wants commitment and brings it up rather than you having to (assuming commitment is even what you want!)
“In the Bedroom”
What do men want to hear in the bedroom? Most men want women to be vocal in the bedroom, to tell them what feels good and guide them to giving her the big “O”.
It’s a huge turn on to most men when a woman is vocal about the fact that she’s turned on and feels pleasure. What men don’t like is when a woman fakes anything or acts over the top intentionally.
If a woman acts over the top on purpose thinking it’ll be the key to turning him on this won’t be effective it’ll only make him feel uncomfortable and like he can’t actually pleasure you.
But what men do like is when a woman is open and able to let go and say what it is that truly turns him on. Guiding him to give you pleasure will make him extremely excited and eager to please you.