10 Unquestionable Signs He Has a Girlfriend He’s Hiding.
Perhaps you’ve been dating a guy for a while now and so far, everything seems to be going great. But somewhere along the line, you notice that something’s not right. Your man’s behavior seems a little off and you can’t really point out what’s really the issue.
Unquestionable Signs He Has a Girlfriend
- He takes his calls privately
Often times we get a call from a parent or a coworker and we need to step out to discuss something. But, if your guy is slipping away for calls frequently, he is probably trying to hide something from you. And that something might just be another girl.
- He guards his phone
We set our phones down all the time, all over the place. At least, we do when we have nothing to hide. If he never lets his phone out of his sight, he could be worried you might pick it up and see something you shouldn’t. If he freaks out because it rang and you went to hand it to him, or even answer it, that is another sign he could be hiding something.
- You have caught him lying about little things
Did your guy say he was going to be home all night, but then you call him and he is out at the bar? Does he say he is going to be one place but days later gets his story confused and says he was another place? When you are leading a double life, it can get hard to remember all the little lies. If he is lying about small things, it just might be to cover up something big.
- He doesn’t want you to come to his place
If his place is completely off limits, it might be because he lives with another woman. Or, maybe there is so much there that would give away her existence that it is just easier to always go to your place. It could be something else, he may be embarrassed of his place or just like his space his, but at some point, you should be invited over, even for a moment.
- You haven’t met any of his friends or family
If you are the big secret than he might not be able to bring you around anyone who really knows him. This is especially true with his family, if they don’t know you exist, he is keeping you a secret for a reason. It might be he isn’t ready yet, but eventually you should meet some of the people that matter to him. Generally, that is a rite of passage in any relationship.
- He doesn’t want to be “friends”
If you are dating, yet he doesn’t want to add you to his Facebook or other social networks he might be worried what you might find if you were on is page. If he says he doesn’t have one at all, check for yourself, and then check again from a friend’s account he doesn’t know about. Sometimes he can go to great lengths to keep their secrets well hidden, he may have blocked you just so you can’t see his account.
- He is super suspicious of you
It has been said that those who are hiding something often suspect the other person of doing the same. There is a lot of truth behind that statement. If he is overly suspicious of you and what you are up to it may be his guilt projecting on to you. Some insecurity can be chalked up to past relationships, but really if he isn’t hiding anything, he may just be an overly jealous jerk.
- The “sister” or “best friend”
Some guys are shameless, and some women don’t mind being one of many. If he seems to spend a weird amount of time with, or talking about, or worst of all comparing you to a sister or best friend there might be more to that relationship than meets the eye. Men and women can be best friends, and guys do have sisters, but if the relationship feels wrong, it might be.
- When you go out, you go way out
If when the two of you go out on the town, he takes you to the next town, he might be trying not to run into anyone he knows. Sure, getting away is romantic, but if every date is an out of the area trip, there might be a reason he isn’t comfortable just taking a stroll in the local mall with you.
- You have your own ringtone but it’s not very special
If he took the time to set up a ring tone for you, but it has no romantic or special meaning you can figure out that is an odd one. He could be ensuring he knows it is you calling without wanting anyone around him (another girl) to know that you are someone special to him.